DOWEY, Pamela Viola (née Pickering)
Passed away peacefully surrounded by family at Latrobe Regional Hospital on Monday 18 September 2023. Aged 45 years.
Loved and loving daughter of Viola and Bruce.
Cherished ma of Abby and Brody (dec.).
Loving older sister of Tania, Haley, Leala and Heidi.
Loving aunty to her nieces and nephews.
Cool Nanny to Andrej.
You worked so hard for those you loved,
You always did your best,
You fought until you could no more,
and now you are at rest.
Back into your Son’s arms.
Funeral NoticeAt the conclusion of the Service the Funeral will leave for the Traralgon Cemetery, Gippsland Memorial Park
Pamela's service will also be livestreamed.
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To my beautiful daughter Pam I miss you so much already. I love you so very much you left far to quick but you earned your wings and you are now with your beautiful boy Brody. You are both forever loved and missed.
Love always my beloved Pam love ❤️ mum
September 21, 2023To a truly wonderful kind hearted woman
September 21, 2023
Our dear Load has said it is time to rest
In the short time that Gaylene and myself have known you
We found you to be
So kind a person who will bend over backwards to help anyone, even take the shirt off your own back to clothe someone
I know you have passed on your kind ways to your beautiful daughter who is following in your footsteps with kindness and a great heart
You will be missed
May you rest in peace
Tony & GayleneWe all love and miss you dearly Pam. Forever grateful to have known you, even if it wasn’t forever. You were such a kind hearted person through and through. All my love from Dave, Ayden and I xx
September 23, 2023Dearest Pam, may you rest easy & be free from pain. May you forever be remembered as the kind, funny & amazing person known as Pamela. You were a beautiful person inside & out. Your energy was infectious & I will cherish the memories I have of you. May you be reunited with Brody once more & together protect & guide Abby from above. 🕊️💞
Lots of love Savannah
September 23, 2023Pam you where so happy go lucky you never deserved to be taken but you will be reunited with Brody, You both will be watching down over Abby you where so young R.I.P Pam you are not in pain or suffering anymore 😥😥❤️🙏
September 23, 2023Deepest sympathy to Abby,your mum was a beautiful person and didn’t deserve all that she went through,may she rest peacefully now with Brody
September 23, 2023Pam you were a easy go lucky person Loved you family beyond word Always there for who ever needed RIP now back with Brody Looking over Abby 💕
September 24, 2023Pam,
Thank you! Thank you for always being there!
Thank you for being you!
Thank you for everything!
I hope you are resting with your boy now 💙
I Promise to always check in on Abbz xx
I love you forever pur Angel 😇
I’m sorry I can’t make it today but I will be there 💕💕Rip Pam 💕💕
September 26, 2023F#CK CANCER
You gained your wings and I lost my best friend. I never could wrap my mind around the thought of losing you, but now it is a reality and accepting that is a battle of its own. My heart is shattered and every time I go to pick the pieces up it just hurts more and more. The pain is paralyzing and makes me go numb from head to toe. My life will truly never be the same without you living in it by my side. I miss you beyond measures.
September 28, 2023
Our friendship was unlike any other, and I will be forever grateful for that. You knew me better than I knew myself. It was you who could send me a text or give me a call and brighten my day no matter how dark I was feeling. You showed me how to look at life as a whole and not dwell on little things that would not matter in a few months.
When I first met you I knew that you would be very special to me just by the way you made me feel like I had known you my whole life. You turned some of my darkest days into memories I would never want to forget. I know that when I met you we were both working through our own very different struggles, but the way we came together to conquer them together was such a beautiful thing. I cannot even begin to tell you how much you changed my life these past few years.
The secrets we shared and the laughs that lasted until our stomachs hurt. It was in those moments that I loved the life I was living simply because you were in it!
Distance became a big part and made it harder for us you became sick and my biggest regret was not coming to see you, I tried so hard to call txt and keep in touch but you were in so much pain, your with your baby boy and pain-free it hurts me that Abby is left with no brother and now her rock her best friend and mother.
I’m so thankful I took so many photos of us during these times. You always asked me why I liked to take so many pictures but I did not have an answer. I do now. I took those pictures so that I can hold them close to my heart during the times we are apart. I will cherish every one of those memories the camera captured because when I look at them I will feel like you are still here with me.
Living life without you is something I never wanted to experience, but I know you are watching over me, smiling when I crack one of my stupid jokes, consoling me when I cry and laughing when You fell off the stump on your 40th you will always be with me in my heart because a piece of my heart will always be reserved for you. I will live every day for you because you are a part of me. I will be the person you made me and live on in the memory of you.
Sorry I wasn’t there for you in the time you needed me most wifey can’t believe my best friend is gone I love you Pam Dowey Always and foreverPam.. We will miss u chic… Thank u for the laughs, love, laughter and memories .. Our school years together and will always hold a special place in both our hearts. Rest in peace our beautiful friend..
Our deepest condolences to all of Pams family and friends. We are so very sorry for ur loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Big hugs today from North Queensland. Xxx.
Renee and Debby
September 28, 2023Rest in peace Pam
September 28, 2023P was the mpsy qzing some. Person i knew i didnt know her long bit but the tine i knew her i feel on lobe with her straight away she was the most down to earth caring person i have e ever meet i will always remember you amd miss you i wish i could have come seen you one last time will miss you dearly 😘😘
September 28, 2023