REA, Pamela Shirley (Pam) (née Ryan)
Passed away peacefully on Wednesday 9th August 2023 at Maryvale Private Hospital, aged 76 years.
Loving and cherished wife of Robert.
Loved and much respected Mother to Michael and Vincent (dec).
Loving Mother-in-law to Nicole and cherished Grandmother to Madeleine and Lucinda.
Loved Sister to Barry (dec) and Patricia (dec), Sister in-law Julie and Brother in-law Dennis.
Adored Aunty and Great Aunt to her many nieces and nephews.
An unselfish and beautifully caring person,
who loved and gave to so many.
What beautiful memories you have left for us all.
Funeral NoticeIn-lieu of any gifts or flowers please feel free to donate to the ongoing research and development for cures of associated lung disease by donating to the Lung Foundation of Australia.
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Loving thoughts and prayers and our sincere condolences to
August 11, 2023
Rob, Michael, Nicole, Madeline and Lucinda.
May the love and support of family and friends and all the beautiful memories of our beloved Pam comfort you all
at this very sad time
Much loved and respected sister to Barry (dec) sister- in-law
Julie Loved and special Aunty Pam to John, Trudy, Les, Nicole,
Chris, Fleur, David, Eva, Jen, Brett, Suzanne,Tate
Great and Great Great Aunty Pam to all their families.
You have left us with beautiful memories which are ours to keep Pam. R.I.P. 💐💐All my beepest condolences to Robbie and families lots of lov always coz Chris xxx
August 12, 2023A beautiful friend to Jenny and Peter, our Matron of Honour. Pam helped so much throughout mum’s illnesses and gave so much comfort after my mum’s passing. Sadly Covid prevented any visits Pam. Our most sincere condolences Rob, forever in our hearts. A kind and gentle lady, with her angels and free of pain. 💝
August 12, 2023Condolences to Robert & family on the passing of Pam.. A lovely lady now at rest..
August 12, 2023With Deepest Condolences to Rob and Family.
Loving thoughts from Chrissie and Rod.I miss you Pam for your Friendship, Caring, Honesty and the
August 12, 2023
Laughter we shared during our Exercise classes. Some days
We had more Laughter than Exercise.
I am Very Proud to Call You MY FRIEND.
Love and The BIGGEST HUG, from your Dear Friend Chrissie.Fond childhood memories of our times together. Our families were neighbours but we were like one. I will miss our chats Pam and will forever hold you deep in my heart with the fondest love❤️
Pam, please give my Mum and Dad a kiss from me❤️
Sincere condolences to Rob, Michael and familyA beautiful soul now resting in peace.
Linda xxx
August 13, 2023Dearest Pam, although we hadn’t seen each other in recent times, I will always cherish our near 50 year friendship💞 Your warm, caring & compassionate nature made you a special and invaluable friend to me. Will always remember our long & sometimes D & M chats….Heaven just gained another Angel 🌹 Will miss you greatly Pam ❤️ xxx
August 14, 2023
Deepest Condolences to Rob, Michael and Family. Love Noreen, Paul & FamilyMy deepest sympathy to you Rob. Pam was such a caring person with a huge heart and love for others before herself.
August 14, 2023Sincere condolences to you Rob, and all your family. I have such fond memories of the kind and caring person Pam was. Much love, Di
August 15, 2023Dear Pam, you were such a lovely kind person. I shall not forget the support you gave me and the kindness and patience to children in your care.Rest in Peace.
August 17, 2023
My condolences to the family.
Gladys JungeDear Rob.
Just a note to let you know that my thoughts are with you and your entire family at this time. Love Rhondaxo
August 17, 2023My sincere condolences and love to Rob and family, I will always remember the good times we had together years ago May Pam rest in peace
August 19, 2023A gentle lady who was fun and loyal. Bless you.
August 21, 2023Such a loving, caring, beautiful lady. The tributes truly reflected the wonderful perso that Pam was. We will miss you, but you will always be lovingly remembered. My sincere condolences to Rob and family on the loss of Pam, may she RIP 💜
August 21, 2023Condolences to Rob and family.
August 21, 2023Aunty Pam…
You will forever hold a special place in our hearts. You were truly a beacon of compassion, love, and unwavering care for all those around you.Your unparalleled devotion to ensuring that everyone in your stead felt loved and cherished was unmatched. You possessed a rare ability to create an atmosphere of love and warmth wherever you went. Your genuine concern for others and interest in their lives made you a pillar of support and a source of solace for those who were lucky enough to know you.
Your impact on our lives extended far beyond your immediate family. Your selfless acts of kindness and sincere investment in the well-being of others touched the lives of many. You have helped shape my own sense of empathy and taught me the importance of caring for others in all circumstances. Your legacy of compassion will continue to inspire me as will your fierce loyalty to your convictions. You stood firmly in what you believed in, unafraid to voice your opinions and fight for justice. What a woman.
As we bid farewell to our beloved Aunty Pam, we take solace in knowing that she has been joyfully reunited with Vinnie, her son… my Dad, her brother and their sister, Aunty Pat along with their parents. They now all rest together over the rainbow, their souls forever intertwined. Though we mourn the loss of the last of their generation, we cherish the memories and lessons they have left behind.
I will forever remember Aunty Pam for her unwavering love, her infectious warmth, and her immense compassion. May her legacy sustain us and remind us to be the embodiment of empathy and care in our own lives. Aunty Pam, you will be deeply missed, but your spirit will forever guide and live within me. Rest peacefully xx
August 21, 2023
Love you – Suzi, Tate, Lavinia, Eleanor, Elliott and Matilda xxOur thoughts and prayers are with you Rob and family at this very sad time. Pam will be missed by so many people our thoughts of her are ones of joy. Rest in peace dear Pam.
August 21, 2023