RUYG – John Michael 🍃
Passed away on Sunday 20th of September 2020, aged 52 years
Husband, Daddy, Son, Brother, Uncle, Cousin, Nephew, Friend, Mentor, Boss, Mate. The most loving, gentle and kind soul to grace our lives has started his next journey.
Eternally grateful to have spent half my life loved by and loving this incredible man. Eternally grateful that I’ll continue to see him every day in Josie’s thoughtfulness and Bowie’s sweetness. Eternally grateful that his last words to me were “I love you”.
But oh, what we would have given for another twenty one years with him.
With hearts shattered into infinite pieces, Renee, Josie and Bowie
Funeral NoticeA service to celebrate John’s life will be live streamed on Wednesday September 30th, 2020 at 11.am.
To view the live stream, click here.
Renee, Josie & Bowie,
Our words are few
Our thoughts are deep
Wonderful memories are ours to keepGwenda, Gavin, Liam & H Smith
September 22, 2020Fly with the angels John.
September 22, 2020
You were an amazing friend at work and an amazing hubby and Dad.
Lee WilsonAlways had a cheeky smile
September 22, 2020
Always had a hug for a friend
Always listened and was there for anyone
Just a gentle soul and so honest
I will miss you and my heartfelt thoughts
Are with the family, Renee and Bowie
And Josie. So sad …our Sorrow is deep for the loss of Gentleman John
September 23, 2020
Forever in our memories and heartWill be remembered as a loving and dedicated family man, generous communtiy member and all-round nice guy.
Our thoughts are with Renee, Josie, Bowie and extended family
September 23, 2020Such a true man thanks mate Eca
September 23, 2020We are lucky to have so many fond memories of a warm gentle caring person who was not only our work colleague but a friend, The last time we caught up for lunch will always remain a special memory. We’re going to miss his beautiful smile, comforting hugs and cheeky laugh.
Our thoughts are with Renee, Josie and Bowie who have lost this beautiful man from their lives way too soon.
May he rest in peace.
Sue & Tessa xx
September 23, 2020Words fail to express my sorrow for your loss.
September 23, 2020
My thoughts
Are with the family, Renee, Bowie
And Josie. ⚘To Renee and the Ruyg family, Thinking of you at this time. I remember John fondly from our primary school days at St Alipius.
September 24, 2020
Helen RyanJohn was such a kind and generous man, and he undoubtedly left a lasting impression on others. It was an honour to have known John and on behalf of Traralgon South Primary School, we will do everything we possibly can to support Renee, Josie & Bowie, both now and in the coming years.
September 24, 2020My heart is heavy for you all. No words can help but know I am thinking of you and your extended family.
September 24, 2020To Renee, Josie and Bowie. My heart is so heavy for you all. Words can’t help much but know I am thinking of you and your extended family.
September 24, 2020
KarynDear Renee, Josie, Bowie, Ida and all John’s family, our thanks for knowing John, and our thoughts and sorrow are for you in this time,
September 24, 2020
Michael and ShelleyDearest Renee, Josie and Bowie. How our hearts are breaking for you. John was a rare gem. Always smiling, kind and welcoming. We have many fond memories of John. There are no words to adequately express the loss of such a wonderful man, or to ease your comfort during this immensely heartbreaking time. Please take some comfort in your cherished memories of your beloved husband and Daddy. The world has lost one of the best. We love you all so very much. Sleep peacefully John xoxo
September 24, 2020Deepest sympathy to Renee and family. John was a work colleague who will be sadly missed.
September 24, 2020
Nick and Rosa FrancolinoThoughts are with Renee, Josie and Bowie, sad to hear of your loss of John, he was a lovely friendly man. RiP John
September 25, 2020A great man with a heart of gold who will be sorely missed by so many. Condolences to Renee, Josie and Bowie and family and may fond memories be with you always.
September 27, 2020
Russell NortheOur heartfelt condolences to John’s family. We valued his gardening advice but more than that, we valued John’s genuine friendliness towards his fellow man.
September 27, 2020Thank you John for making it possible!
September 28, 2020
I was in Australia with Simon Valente for half a year in 1996. John gave us a home during that time.
I am so grateful for these wonderful memories! Natalie Blume, Bonn, GermanyGoodbye my friend….
Sleep well with your fathers….
I thought I had the time to say goodbye, but in the twinkling of an eye
It was October and already allover
I’m not gonna tell a lie, it’s been a while Since I’ve cried
while I’ve been sober
All the beauty of your life, 2 glowing kids, that spunky wife
And the news that you would not be getting older.Good Bye my friend, Sleep well with your fathers
I hope to see you again, not in this world but another
I hope to see you again, not in this world but the other….Now I have to lift my eyes, to see you face up in the sky
A shining start like all the others
I’m honored you took so much time, even now I can’t help but smile
As I remember all the places, we discovered….Good Bye my friend, Sleep well with your fathers
I hope to see you again, not in this world but another
I hope to see you again, not in this world but the other….To those of you who wonder why you chose this time to up and die….
Has no one ever told you?
He was always in control, everything he touched just turned to gold
Including what will now unfold before you…Good Bye my friend, Sleep well with your fathers
I hope to see you again, not in this world but another
I hope to see you again, not in this world but the other….Were you and I will have the time, and both grow up as brothers,
We’ll both grow up as brothersI hope to see you again, not in this world but another
September 28, 2020
I hope to see you again, not in this world but the other….Our love and thoughts are with Renee, Josie, Bowie, Ida and all of the Ruyg families on the very sad passing of John., a much loved friend, we have so many special memories that we will cherish forever.
September 28, 2020
Mark & Lisa Boak and familyGoodbye John, I feel so lucky to have shared some favourite things with you – trees, food and pies. I’ll miss our tree talk and I was very proud to know you as an arborist and as a friend. Forever my tree guru. We’ll miss you and our thoughts will always be of you and your family.
September 29, 2020Huge Smile, Huge Heart, Huge Presence, Huge Belly Laugh, Huge Hugs
John never had a bad word to say about anybody and saw the positive in everyone.
Great Arborist and a very dear friend
Peakey
September 29, 2020Going to miss you big fella. All the conversations about trees that you where so passionate about. You inspired me and put me on the right path in the world of arboriculture. Truly great man that I felt privileged to know and will be very sadly missed. My thoughts are with your family at this time. Rest in Peace mate.
September 30, 2020Dear Renee, Josie, Bowie and your families, I am so sad for you all for your loss of John. I met John back in our teens through my sister Kirstin and was always the most caring, fun and friendly guy… John was especially kind to me when I was sick back then which I have never forgotten. He was a wonderful lifelong friend to Kirstin. My thoughts are with you today and John will be missed by us all…Anna Grayson
September 30, 2020Ruygy Rest In Peace. You will not be forgotten.
September 30, 2020Dear Renee, Josie and Bowie
There are no words other than what a wonderful man John was.
Sending you all our love, Melanie & Vaughan x
September 30, 2020Good bye to one of the greatest influences in my life gonna miss you Doc
September 30, 2020Ruygie, you were a great work colleague and a fantastic human being. I treasure the time and conversations we had together at Latrobe City. ( the odd commiseration about the Hammers ‘recent performance )
You’re a champ, and I know that wherever you are now you will be enjoying your Pie and Big M with a cheeky grin and twinkle in your eye.
September 30, 2020
Love you mate, goodbye for now…Gonna miss ya big fella you were a inspiration in our lifes and happy to be part of yours mate
October 1, 2020
Tim